What this group is about

This group was meant to mean "People who seem to have no problems but actually do have mental issues". I didn't look up the right word. I didn't mean to attract people narcissistic people who pretend to perfect so that others like them. This group was inspired by people who act happy but are actually sad inside. I saw the group name and thought: "Oh, that's my problem too". So I wanted to make my own group and find others who had the same problem so we could help each other. Well, but actually I never really pretended to be happy. It was just that the people around me weren't interested in my problems or opinion or didn't notice I wasn't feeling well. I felt I couldn't change anything so I became withdrawn and didn't tell anyone about my problems. I was good at school and everyone told me "You must be so happy. I'm so unhappy because I'm not as good as you.". However, success in school didn't make me happy. It was not the thing I wanted. I was interested in the topics we addressed, that's why I participated very well. I wasn't interested in competition or winning though. I didn't like how people thought we couldn't be friends because I was good at school. So this is was the group is about. You do everything right because you have nothing else to do but it doesn't satisfy and you're sad and lonely. This leads to a burnout.

About the connected artists: I really like these two. Both Kurt Cobain and Lindsay Cobain are admired by many people. Yet both had a bad childhood/youth and couldn't/can't enjoy their success. They thought success could help them feel better. I felt like that too, it didn't work though. So I created this group. Therefore Kurt Cobain and Lindsay Lohan match the group topic very well.

Christian Alexander Tietgen